50 Ways to Give Experiences Instead of Stuff this Year

If you still have some shopping left to do, why not consider gifting an experience?

Chances are that whomever you are buying for already has a home filled with lots of wonderful things (the average American home has over 300,000 items in it).

Americans own twice as many things as we did 50 years ago. But the interesting thing is that, even with more things, Americans do not report to be any happier. In fact, 54% of us now report feeling overwhelmed by clutter and 78% of us say we have no idea how to manage it!

While stuff can make us happy temporarily, research shows that experiences contribute to lasting happiness. 

The work of researcher Thomas Gilovich at Cornell University has found that people tend to get less happier with material purchases over time, and more happy with experiences. Gilovich concludes that this is because people adapt to physical things, so even the nicest car or newest phone soon become commonplace, while memories tend to get fonder over time.

“Our experiences are a bigger part of ourselves than our material goods,” Gilovich explains. “You can really like your material stuff. You can even think that part of your identity is connected to those things, but nonetheless they remain separate from you. In contrast, your experiences really are part of you. We are the sum total of our experiences.”

So if gifting experiences leads to increased happiness without contributing to America’s clutter problem, then it’s a win-win.

Here are 50 ideas “experience based” gift ideas that you can give (even last minute):

Memberships

Zoo membership 

Museum membership 

Gym membership 

Batting cage membership 

Science Center membership 

Rock Climbing membership

Jump gym membership 

Orchestra membership 

Online courses (Click on the links to check them out if interested!).

Declutter your home course

Feeding toddlers course (This is what I’m asking for this year!)

Financial peace courses

CrossFit courses

Course on How to be the best version of yourself 

Mindfulness courses

Intuitive eating course 

Motherhood course

Peaceful parenting course

Course on Teaching kids to cook real food

Course on How to shoot a basketball 

Leadership courses 

Classes/Lessons

Painting classes

Pottery classes

Language lessons 

Music lessons

Golf lessons

Tennis lessons 

Dance lessons (Flamenco, Salsa, Swing)

Sessions with a personal trainer 

Cooking classes

Ski lessons

Skydiving lessons

Scuba lessons 

Tickets

Concert tickets

Tickets to see a motivational speaker

Tickets to see a comedian

Tickets to a sporting event (NFL, NBA, NHL)

Movie tickets 

Tickets to a brewery tour 

Tickets to an escape room

Theme park tickets 

Tickets to a wine tasting event 

Theater tickets 

Gift certificates/ gift cards

Favorite restaurant 

Ice cream parlor 

Coffee shop

Massage 

Acupuncture 

Home cleaning service 

Babysitting service 

Laundry pick up service 

Let’s not load our loved ones down with more stuff (especially if they’re in that overwhelmed 54%!). Give the gift of experiences and help make this Christmas a happier, more memorable one.